English Grammar Pronoun Rules and Tricks

Welcome to Chapter 3 of our complete English Grammar series. Ab tak humne Nouns padhe, jisme humne naam (names) rakhna seekha. Ab hum baat karenge un words ki jo in Nouns ki jagah lete hain – PRONOUNS (Sarvanaam).

Competitive exams (SSC CGL, CHSL, Bank PO, NDA) mein Pronouns se sabse zyada tricky questions "Spotting Errors" aur "Sentence Improvement" section mein aate hain. Is chapter mein hum sirf definition nahi, balki wo Top Exam Rules seekhenge jahan 90% students marks loose karte hain.


1. Pronoun Kya Hai? (The Basics)

Definition: Pronoun ek aisa word hai jo Noun ke repetition (baar-baar ek hi naam likhne) ko rokne ke liye use hota hai. Ye language ko smooth aur smart banata hai.

  • Without Pronoun: Ravi is a good boy. Ravi goes to school daily. Ravi likes Ravi's new car. (Sunne mein bahut ajeeb aur childish lagta hai).
  • With Pronoun: Ravi is a good boy. He goes to school daily. He likes his new car. (Perfect & Professional).

2. Cases of Personal Pronouns (The Must-Memorize Table)

Exam mein error tab hota hai jab examiner Subject ki jagah Object laga kar de deta hai (e.g., "Me and Ravi went to the market" - ❌ Wrong). Is table ko dhyan se dekhein aur dimag mein print kar lein:

Person Subjective Case
(Kaam karne wala)
Objective Case
(Jis par kaam ho)
Possessive Adjective
(Noun ke sath)
Possessive Pronoun
(Bina Noun ke)
1st Person (Speaker / Bolne wala) I, We Me, Us My, Our Mine, Ours
2nd Person (Listener / Sunne wala) You You Your Yours
3rd Person (Other / Jiske baare me baat ho) He, She, It, They Him, Her, It, Them His, Her, Its, Their His, Hers, --, Theirs

(Mobile users table ko left-right slide karein 👉)

⚠️ Critical Difference: My vs Mine (Exam Trap)
Dono ka matlab 'Mera' hota hai, par use alag hai:
  • My (Adjective): Iske baad Noun aana 100% zaroori hai. (This is my book.)
  • Mine (Pronoun): Ye akela aata hai, Noun ko replace karke. (This book is mine.)
  • Exam Error: Letter writing mein "Yours faithfully" sahi hota hai, par "Your's faithfully" ❌ (Wrong) hota hai. Pronoun mein kabhi apostrophe ('s) nahi lagta.

3. Important Rules for Competitive Exams (VVI)

Rule 1: Order of Pronouns (231 vs 123 Rule)

Jab ek hi sentence mein 3 alag-alag log (I, You, He) aa jayein, toh unhe kis line (order) mein khada karein? English manners par chalti hai!

A. General / Good Sense (Rule 231): Agar baat normal hai ya koi achha kaam kiya hai, to pehle saamne wale ko izzat do (2nd Person), fir teesre ko (3rd Person), aur last mein khud ko (1st Person) rakho.

  • You, he and I are going to the party. (Correct)
  • I, you and he are going to the party. (Wrong Manners = Grammar Error)

B. Negative Sense / Mistake / Plural (Rule 123): Agar koi galti, paap (crime) maan rahe ho, to khud ko sabse aage rakho (1st Person), fir saamne wala (2nd), fir teesra (3rd). Agar saare pronouns Plural (We, You, They) hain, tab bhi yahi rule chalega.

  • I, you and he have committed a crime. (Negative act me 123)
  • We, you and they should work together. (All Plural me 123)

Rule 2: Objective Case after Prepositions & 'Let'

English ka fixed niyam hai: Prepositions (between, but, except, in, on, at) aur 'Let' ke baad humesha Objective Case (Me, Him, Them) hi aayega.

There is no secret between he and I. (Wrong - 'Between' preposition hai).
There is no secret between him and me. (Correct).

Let he go. (Wrong)
Let him go. (Correct)

Rule 3: Comparison Rule (Subject vs Subject)

Comparison (tulna) humesha barabar walon mein hota hai. Agar sentence mein Subject ka comparison ho raha hai, to aage bhi Subjective case aayega.

  • He is taller than me. (Spoken English mein chalta hai, par Grammar mein Zero marks milenge).
  • He is taller than I. (Kyunki 'He' Subject hai, toh 'I' bhi Subject hi hona chahiye).

4. Relative Pronouns: Who, Whom, Which, That

Ye wo hissa hai jahan sabse zyada fill-in-the-blanks aur cloze test fansate hain.

Pronoun Usage (Kahan lagayein?) Example
Who For Humans (As a Subject - Jisne kaam kiya) The boy who came here is my brother.
Whom For Humans (As an Object - Jis par kaam hua) The boy whom I met was smart.
Which Animals / Non-living things The dog which is black is mine.
That Specific situations (Superlative, All, Same, Only) He is the best boy that I know.
🔥 'That' Special Rule (Golden Exam Trick):
Agar sentence mein inmein se koi word aa jaye: All, The same, Only, None, Nothing, Any, Superlative Degree (Best, Tallest) — toh aankh band karke 'That' laga dena, wahan Who ya Which NAHI aayega.
Famous Example: All that glitters is not gold. (Not 'All which').

5. Reflexive Pronouns (Myself, Himself, Themselves)

Jab kisi Subject ke kaam ka asar palat kar ushi par aa jaye (Reflection), to Reflexive Pronoun use hota hai.

🔥 Important Verbs List:
Kuch verbs aisi hain jinke baad agar koi Object na ho, to aapko khud ek Reflexive Pronoun lagana padta hai: Avail, Absent, Enjoy, Resign, Apply, Acquit, Adapt, Pride.

  • He enjoyed in the party. (Incomplete - Kya enjoy kiya? Answer nahi hai).
  • He enjoyed himself in the party. (Correct).
  • I availed myself of the great opportunity. (Mene khud fayda uthaya).
Caution (Interview/Spoken Error): Kabhi bhi sentence ki shuruwat Reflexive Pronoun se mat karein.
Myself is Ravi. (Totally Wrong!)
I am Ravi. ya My name is Ravi. (Correct)

6. Distributive & Reciprocal Pronouns

Each Other vs One Another:

  • Each Other: Jab sirf 2 log involve hon. (Ravi and Mohan love each other.)
  • One Another: Jab 2 se zyada log hon. (The five brothers love one another.)

Each / Either / Neither:

  • Grammar mein ye teeno words hamesha Singular maane jaate hain. Inke aage aane wala Noun plural ho sakta hai, par Verb humesha Singular hogi!
  • Each of the boys has a book. (Not 'have').
  • Neither of the two girls is active. (Not 'are').

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Q1: "Who" aur "Whom" mein confusion kaise door karein?

Ans: Ek simple trick hai. Sentence me 'Who' ki jagah 'He' rakh kar dekho, aur 'Whom' ki jagah 'Him'. Agar 'He' fit ho raha hai to 'Who' lagao, agar 'Him' fit ho raha hai to 'Whom' lagao.

Q2: Kya hum animals ke liye "Who" use kar sakte hain?

Ans: Generally nahi. Animals aur non-living things ke liye humesha "Which" ka use hota hai. (e.g., The cat which is drinking milk).


📝 Chapter 3 Summary & Homework

Pronouns chapter mein humne seekha ki Subjective Case (I, He) aur Objective Case (Me, Him) kahan lagte hain. 231 Rule (You, He, I) humesha positive sentences mein manners dikhane ke liye lagana hai. Preposition aur Let ke baad hamesha Object aayega.

Practice Question for You (Comment your answer!):
"It is me who did this heavy work." - Is sentence mein kya galti hai?
(Hint: 'It is' wale structure ke baad hamesha Subjective case aata hai. Socho aur batao!)

Next Chapter: Agle chapter mein hum Noun aur Pronoun ki visheshta (quality) batane wale Adjectives (Visheshan) aur Adverbs ke rules padhenge, jo exams mein Degrees of Comparison (Good, Better, Best) ke questions mein bohot kaam aayenge.